What up people!!! I know you are probably like, "Oh no...not another blog!!" LOL. YEP...its another blog. This blog is perhaps the most important blog that i've done or will ever do. This is about ME...the real ME, trying to get my life together. And YOU, yes YOU, helping me through my journey.
First off, let me say that I am not on drugs! LOL.
Ok, with that being said, I am about to go in, and just share my heart and a few other things:
I've always been on the fence with my Christianity. Some days I do good, others I forget that I am a Christian and do selfish things. I've always "Justified" or "Balanced Out" my short comings by saying that," I am only human." " Rome wasn't built in a day." " God knows my heart." hahahahahaha. Always saying to God and to myself, "I'll get it right tomorrow or the next time."
Well, after years of getting it wrong, and thousands of tomorrows, I'm still back to HERE! Wanting to do better.
I have realized alot about myself this past year (2008), and I am consciously going to make a better effort to change this year, well actually, within the next 28 days.
They say that a habit is formed in 21 days, so I figured that I would give myself a little wiggle-room! Just in case it doesn't take in the first 21 days.
OK..so I know you probably have a couple of questions, so I will try my best to answer them for you:
WHY -Quick story. I was in church today, and I saw a man and his wife walking up for prayer. I remembered that a few months ago, they went up for prayer because the doctors told them that the wife couldn't get pregnant, and the couple really wanted a child. The preacher spoke to the wifes stomach directly and told her that the stomach will work properly, that their prayers will be answered, and that God honors obedience. The preacher told the couple that God said that she'll be pregnant by October (2008).
So when I saw them this morning at church, I immediately looked at her stomach. YEP! She was pregnant. At least 5-6 months!!!! I was stuck! I sat there and said to myself, " This thing HAS to work! I am just doing it wrong." That is when God spoke directly to me, and gave me this idea.
He gave me specific instructions, and I am going to carry them out, no matter what anyone thinks! He told me to write down my Challenges, Goals, and my Daily acivity...to see if I am reaching my goals, and if not, why am I not reaching them. (side note: I have a lot of irons in the fire. I always seem to start a great idea, but don't finish. It's time to FINISH).
I also feel like, as I have grown into a man, its theraputic for ME to express myself. The good, the bad and the ugly.
Finally, I need SUPPORT. I know you guys care for me, and want me to succeed. So I'm going to need ALL of your support. I am hoping that at the end of my journey, I can take some people with me. Motivate some people to examine there own lives, and FINISH what ever they choose to start. Shoot, maybe even help someone. Please leave a COMMENT in the COMMENT section of this blog so I can read your thoughts, etc...you never know how your comments may help me out or someone else reading the comments.
GOALS: Things I am believing God will help me acccomplish within the next 28 days:
-That my moms health issues get dealt with quickly, and she has a speedy and full recovery!
-A full time job in TV production, that not only pays me what I am worth, but pays me more than I am worth, and can appreciate all of my talents, gits, and connections.
AND/OR
-I sell my TV Pilot and DVD ideas so I can be financially independent.
-I read my bible twice a day
-I pray for at least 30 minutes a day
-I get answers to lingering questions that specifically deal with issues in my personal life.
-That my daughter continues to improve in school and becomes at least a B student by the end of this school semester - I need the wisdom to motivate and encourage her, and the vision to see when she needs encouragement or motivation.
-That my book gets completed, and blows up!!!!
-That I go to the gym consistently and I actually see the changes in my physical appearance.
(I am sure that I will add more goals as I go along......)
TIME TO GET STARTED:
My goal was to just get this thing started. MISSION ACCOMPLISHED. I was really excited with the thought of actually putting myself out there. No more excuses. There is also a lot of pressure with me putting the microscope on my own life. I am confident that I can rise to overcome my challenges despite the pressure. I'm sure I will be embarrassed to write somethings. Some things will defiantely be difficult to share, however, I want this thing documented in real time, so there is no denying that God is going to move on my behalf.
Today-Monday February 2, 2008: Keri, my sisters 21st birthday!!!!!!!!
Goals
My goals are to make sure my sister know I love her and didn't forget her birthday, pray for fifteen minutes, read my bible in the morning and the evening with the help of my church's bible reading plan, play baskeball, watch a DVD of a church service, watch First Blood with my daughter, and not eat any sugar products.
I will check back in later to give you guys an update-I am certain God will give me a great way to accomplish one of my goals.
Challenges
Identifying and eliminating distractions.
What I'll be meditating or thinking about today:
Temptation is only an offer - offers can be refused!
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What an encouraging message bro. This definitely motivates me to grow in areas i've allowed challenge me for years. After some self evaluation, its become pretty clear; I might have to bite some of them goals.
ReplyDeleteStay blessed bro, lookin forward to hearing from you again
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WOW! i'm extremely excited for you! i think this is an excellent idea and i believe it will serve as an inspiration to others, i know you've certainly inspired ME. you know i will support you in this 100%... wait, make that 110%, lol!
ReplyDeleteFirst off, this is an excellent idea. You never cease to amaze me, Unc. I would like to help you focus on your goal setting by giving you an acronym. SMAC - Specific, Measurable, Attainable, Challenging. I run a sales force and also conduct property damage consulting. I need to always have goals and they are sometimes revised so don't be discouraged by some changes in your goals. Replace the doubt words; at least, I can, nearly, etc. with real quantities, I will, I am, etc. You want everything to be in the positive without doubts.
ReplyDeleteAn example is my team's goal everyday is to close 3 accounts each. The goal is SMAC. It's not to DO WELL, that's not specific. It's not to close a FEW accounts, THREE is measurable. It's not to close 30 accounts each, that's not realistically attainable. And 3 accounts is a lot more challenging than zero or one account.
Keep your goals SMAC.
Your blog is very inspirational. Now also make it motivational. The difference is that inspiration is a start and motivation is what keeps the start going. I am like you when it comes to that since we have great ingenuity but stray away from attending it.
One more tip, use a process on yourself called build break build. Compliment yourself on something good you've done toady, then criticize something you need to improve on, and then end with another good compliment. If you read this comment over again, I actually just did it to you.
You should know who I am before you even check. I have unconditional luv for you kiddo. Keep the positive people close to you.
This is an awesome idea. I keep a daily journal and understand your purpose for doing this. There is something about putting yourself out there to people you love that spells HUNGRY for change in your life. When you know you have a circle who loves and support you, you can count on them to help keep you accountable.
ReplyDelete...Keep at it and holla if I can help in any way!
Anna Mae :)
P.S. One of the things I've been working on is to eliminate the word 'try' from my vocabulary. When I first heard it I thought it was not realistic; sometimes all you can do is try. However, the more I thought about it, try is really an honest lie. Either I'm going to do it or I'm not. 'Try' is like an easy out if I want to take it. 'At least I said I'd try'. That way, I don't feel so bad if I don't do it. Can't take that to the next level with me...
First of all great Idea to write your vision down and make it plan to you and your family. Secondly, I encourage you to keep things in proper order, I mean, seek first the kingdom of God and his Righteousness and all things WILL be add to you. It's a FAITH thang. I've found when I focus on what Gods plan is for my life every thing falls in order. Now, this may not be what you want to hear However, it's what you need to hear!!! The truth WILL make you free. For those of us called by God HE holds the plans to our destiny. In order to fulfill our true destiny we MUST seek him DAILY.(Truth) As your Older Bro I would love to hear from you more.I may not tell you what you want to hear all the time but I will give you Gods truth it will heal and guide your life to the success you desire.
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Pat L (I love you Bro)
First Corey B...let me start by saying that you are a very eloquent writer and (not to add to your "irons" LOL) but I think that this concept could be transformed into a wonderful journal/exercise that people have a lot of space to write...
ReplyDeleteThat being said, I commend you for taking such a courageous step in being so (worldchangerese term coming) TRANSPARENT. I have been hesitant to do my "25 things..." on facebook LOL. Blessings in your journey and I am here for the next 27 days and thereafter - Blessings - Eva Jane
This new blog is very inspirational Corey, and I am very sure you will accomplish all of your goals. I have watched you from a boy to a great established man. You were always a good human being and now I see you are a superb human being. Prayer and faith go a long way, and with God leading you, there are no wrong turns. Continue with your new project and I wish you nothing but success. God bless you and your family!
ReplyDeleteI am always here for you. I love you more than I've ever managed to say. You're a star. And I'm extremely proud of your heart and your courage; esp. since I'm the one who put you up on blogging in the first place (geez, now youre a blog-a-holic!)
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This was sent to me by a friend and I thought it was very applicable to what you are trying to accomplish. I commend you 1000% on this goal. It's definitly an inspiration to me and others of whom you afforded the opportunity to experience and share in your transformation.
ReplyDeleteLove your good friend J
CLEANING HOUSE FOR 2009
Last Week I threw out worrying, it was getting old and in the way.
It kept me from being me; I couldn't do things God's way.
I threw out a book on MY PAST
(Didn't have time to read it anyway).
Replaced it with NEW GOALS, started reading it today.
I threw out hate and bad memories,
(Remember how I treasured them so)?
Got me a NEW PHILOSOPHY too, threw out the one from long ago.
Brought in some new books too, called I CAN, I WILL, and I MUST.
Threw out I might, I think and I ought.
WOW, you should've seen the dust.
I ran across an OLD FRIEND, I hadn't talked to in a while
His name is GOD the Father, and I really like His style.
He helped me to do some cleaning and added some things Himself.
Like PRAYER, HOPE, FAITH and LOVE,
Yes... I placed them right on the shelf.
I picked up this special thing and placed it at the front door.
I FOUND IT- it's called PEACE. Nothing gets me down anymore.
Yes, I've got my house looking nice.
Looks good around the place.
For things like Worry and Trouble there just isn't any space.
It's good to do a little house cleaning,
Get rid of the things on the shelf.
It sure makes things brighter; maybe you should TRY IT YOURSELF.
BE BLESSED AND BE A BLESSING TO SOMEONE ELSE!!!!
May the Lord open the windows of heaven and pour you out a blessing that
you will not have room enough to receive it all.
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May the Lord bless you exceedingly abundantly above all you could ever
hope for.
Keep the Faith!!!
We were made by God and for God, and until you figure that out, life isn't going to make sense.
Good Morning from the BEST COAST - oops, the West Coast!!!! 9:15 am YAWN....
ReplyDeleteOk, ok, ok, ok..... As a true supporter and friend - let's do this....
I DID NOT PLAN on revealing my Goals because I am a woman of my word - and once it's out there.... I gotta put up, or shut up…. well, DURN....
Here's what you can hold me accountable for:
GOALS: Things I believe God will help me accomplish within the next 28 days:
-A divine wholeness. After my Daddy's passing 5 weeks ago and my Mommy 7 years ago - I HAVE TO find comfort in my eternal Father, seek rest in His arms, and receive solace from His voice.
-God's given me a gift of song. May the current inspirational children's lullaby collection bring comfort to the babies (those having problems sleeping, those that are hurting, those that are confused and seeking guidance, and those whose parents want to begin early with God's presence in their child's life). May the record be financially lucrative enough to employ those who run with the vision and help a children's charity/hospital – “One Song At A Time”.
-I read/listen to scriptures consistently.
-I create a prayer list and be an intercessor for family, friends and our government.
-I get answers to lingering questions that specifically deal with issues in my personal life. (Copy Kat)
-That my health remains good and improves with an actual work out - NOT THE ONE I DREAM ABOUT.
-That my book about grief and how I dealt with it gets completed and published!!!!
PS - Check out my girl's new book NO EXCUSES - T. Adam McFaddin
ReplyDeleteMan... This is very inspiring. I feel the same way you do about being a better Christian. It's not that I am a bad person but personally I can do better. I believe that when I live better other can be inspired through me. But I have to get it together first. You have encouraged me to better myself. I know that we have talked about me and school before. I was down about getting into school but I have to have the faith and trust God. Reading your blog made me realized that I need to not just read the bible but study the word.
ReplyDeleteThanks man.
WOW... More to come!
ReplyDeleteGod will continue to bless you, this I know. You are a wonderful person Corey. You have inspired me to keep pressing on. I know God is not done with me. Years ago I had a problem with forgiveness because of somethings that happen in my personal life and i was bitter and i was angre at the whole but God kept working on me and one day I had a break through and tears were streaming down my face and the day i let go of all the hurt and pain was the day my gates of blessing starting to pour in. I thought that was my hardest test God put in before me but the test I am going through right now is the test of Patience. I just ask that you pray that I find the strengh to past this test too. I will pray for you and please pray for me.
ReplyDeleteAfter all God has put us back in to each others life for a reason after 20 years. Be Blessed
Thalia
You've always had the tools to accomplish your goals and now you will use the strongest one in your aresenal, God's promise to help us become better people. I'm so glad we are in this lifetime together as I continue to learn from you. You can and will do this. Your breakthru is now. Just believe and walk in it.
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Hey my friend,
ReplyDeleteYep it's true- you ARE a 'blog-a-holic' but you always have been...carrying around your little black and white note pads...with poetry, spoken word and just random thoughts. This is a carthartic way for you to deal with making change in your life...AND it reflects your dedication to the process since you're making yourself accountable to friends and family.
Many people including myself are going through a repositioning of themselves in life and we all can benefit from the testimony of someone we care about --sharing their progress. I believe in you.
Dream it. Believe it. Do it.
Hugs
J
I dig the concept. You make me want to find my spiritual journal. I am embarking on new roads in my own emotional, spiritual and physical life. I will keep you posted. Maybe today I too will join you on this habit forming journey to grow in Christ and to let Christ grow in me.
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My Brother, I have no doubt you will accomplish your goals. "Believe in yourself, don't give up the fight", but faith in the Lord will see you through your most difficult struggles. Thanks for sharing with me. You continue to amaze.
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Kermit
Thanks for sharing. What you are doing is inspiring others. I like your last comment for today...Temptation is an offer. Offers can be refused. May I use that? I will definitely give you full credit.
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Hi Corey,
ReplyDeleteWow!!! I decided to post directly to your e-mail rather than on the blog but please feel free to share any or all of this e-mail. I don't think you realize just how inspiriational you are and how God works on us through each other. Just last night, I was talking to my neighbor about the changes that we all need to make in our lives and the main topic of discussion was strenghthening our relationship with God. My neighbor is actually moving back to Ohio to get her degree in Theology and then this morning, I get this e-mail directing me to your blog!!! Coincidence??? I think not!!! We ALWAYS ask God for the best for our lives, so isn't it only fair that the sentiment is reciprocated? We want the best from him so we have to give to him the best of ourselves!!! One thing that I can say that has given ME comfort is that I don't worry about "anything", but I pray about "everything"!!! Simple concept, huh? Use it!!! I wish you all the success in the world in attaining the goals that you have set forth and please know that I love you & will always be here for you!!!
Big C
Hi Corey, I am extremely excited about your journey. I think it is so important to Journal your journey. I immediately started praying for the success of the plan God has given you.
ReplyDeleteMy favorite scripture is Jer.29:11 - Basically God has a plan for us and it is not to fail, KNOW THAT!! In this Christian Journey Ive learned that its Gods will for my life. I really try to walk in being a diligent hearer and doer of what the Lord is saying to me before proceeding. You will succeed.
Proverbs 16:9 - A mans heart plans his way but the Lord directs his steps.
I am praying for you my friend.
Ney
Frist...would like to say thanks for sharing this with me....you might not be where and what you want to be right now...but I don't think you realize who you are today...You are a child of God...You do listen to Him and You do allow him to use you as his tool...to encourage to give words wisdom...to lend a listen ear....you tell of your personal experiences to change others lives. Thats love. You came into my life and changed it in three days with these acts of kindness and love. You allowed God to use you as a tool to bring me and my sisters back to him and I will never forget....never would have made with out you....thanks for your obedience to God. looking foward to the day when you will be able to go over to my mom and give her a hug lol..lol...Iam working on that too. You are my covenant brother...remember that. Lets take this journey keep going and don't look back...and alwayz remember Phil 1:6. I am alwayz in your corner...we win.. Hope you know who this is with my unigue style of writing. Thanks Cory B
ReplyDeleteCorey B!!! I cannot say how proud of you I am enough! I always knew we had a special connection, despite the "original in-roads" :) but seriously dude, you have always had "greatness & success" tugging at your sleeves and I'm excited that they will no longer be tugging, but enclothe and surround you because your focus will be on the One who brought them to you from the very beginning!
ReplyDeleteAlso, I'd like to say THANK YOU! Thank you for being brave enough as a man to appear so fragile. It is extremely refreshing to see a man seek not just help, but godly help and to see a man desire to reach his God-given position in life! May many, many men step up and follow suit and stop being "scurred"! :)
Lastly, I'm here for you! You have my support as best as I can give it for however you need it. I pray that everything that God has planned for your life from the beginning of creation manifests on time and in full! I pray for your determination and courage to increase and bind the distractions that will try to beset your accomplishments. I stand in the gap with and for you and declare you victorious!
Let me be the first to congratulate you!! Why delay the inevitable! :) Faith is NOW and just having made the decision to change is the only step you needed to promote change! Let the redeemed of the Lord say so - and I say YOU WIN!!!!
Much love and respect!!
~LL
Congrats to you for doing this. Just take this journey one day at a time (I know this is said so many times, but I find that when you do this a lot of pressure is taken off of you).Acknowlege God, let Him lead you, and stay focused, and you WILL achieve your goals. I will follow your progress.
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Corey,
ReplyDeletei am excited for you brother!!!! sorry i'm just getting to this. you are motivating me to step my game up. God Bless and keep it going. you are truly and inspiration to us all
monty